On to nicer subjects:
Night before last I did my volunteer work at the Oakland east bat gay men's chorus concert, mostly tending bar. The concert was so fun! they did lots of terrific songs, and one of my best friends was even Frank N. Furter (he sang "Sweet Transvestite") and he brought down the house!
The rap party yesterday was amazing! It was held at the house of the same guys in the chorus who had it last year, they have a gorgeous swimming pool and a hot tub w/ a built in sound system and they hired masseurs and we drank and ate wonderful food and had great, fun conversations and lots of laughs. I asked one of the hosts if he and his boyfriend would adopt me. (hehe) it may be a stereotype but it's an accurate one, gay guys KNOW how to party.