On a nicer note, J and his boyfriend came over last night to get some things and help me with some stuff and I enjoyed talking to them. I was expecting them but I thought they were going to call when they got here and it startled me because they just walked in without calling or knocking (J still had his old key) and I was watching It Follows and they walked in just as that THING showed up so I laughed my ass off.
Also went to my favorite cafe and had tea and a cookie. :)